This is about cruelty abuse and the family courts and people associsted with it not really understanding whats happening

My ex-husband alienated my 29-year-old son. He has not talked to me in 4 years. The funny thing is that no one knows how he manipulated him, but he did do it. Does the alienator tell lies to their children, because I think that is what he is good at? I will never know what he did to my son. I only hope my son someday sees what was done to him.

I have experienced nothing but terror from my ex re: my daighter. She has alienated me for 6 years now.

She has accused me everything under the sum.

She carried affairs with other men. one in particular that I found out about.

This ended it. She blamed for fot this and used my daughter as revenge.

I love my daughter very much, but have lost all hope of reconciliation....

It's been a while since I wrote here. 2 months to be almost exact. Yesterday my teenage son told me to fuck off and pushed me aside. My teenage daughter said I was a liar, dishonest and I had lost all my values and people who are Catholic don't get divorced. My smallest son doesn't want to stay overnight with me anymore either. My elder two daughters don't want to talk to me nor (apparently) ever see me again. My eldest son is ok though, but I am sure he's doing his best to defend the attacks and alienation from his mother. I am moving on with another woman and getting married again. My ex has ramped up her wrath. the rest of the story is on my blog

My ex, a cunning professional, has aliented my 15 and 17 year old. This has been going on for years and now he picked up my sons and took them after telling them I was spending all his money and their college money to buy a home. I cannot contact them and they won't answer my texts. It is a violation of our week on/week off custodial arrangement. My last attorney says to take him to court but I have already spent over $100,000 to stop this.

A therapist told me to give it time, but there are very few therapists or people in general that understand this horrible situation. It has worsened over these last few months.

Does anyone have suggestions to help? Thanks for any responses.

I called my two girl yesterday, and my ex-husbands girlfriend answered the phone.I asked if I could speak to either J or V, and she said just a minute....then she put the phone down and let me listen to her NOT tell my girls I was on the phone.
My girls live outside of my province and the last time I saw them was end of summer of 08...I was supposed to have them for half of the summer, but my ex would not allow it, I had to go to court, and by the time I got through that...summer was almost over.When I flew my children back to their home in BC, my older daughter J, had a breakdown in the airport.She stated that she only went with me because of the courts (funny, my ex is under court order NOT to talk about the court proceedings), she told me she hated me, and when I asked her why, she didn't even know why.
I have spoken to Dr. Allen Young (a noted child psychologist in my city), about the past alienation campaign...here is the list...

-Children were removed from the home so I could not take them during the marriage meltdown.
-they were told "If your Mom loves you she will come see you", so he kept me away, guess that proved his point.
-by the time I could afford a lawyer, presidence was set in his favour.
-just as I was starting to get somewhere in court, the police were called, by him, stating I was dealing drugs.Thank god they did not believe him.
-then came the childrens aid call, they were told by my daughters, that I hit them, and the men in my life were forcing them to do sexual things, thank god they didn't believe them.
-we went to counselling WHAT A JOKE.The system allowed him to manipulate the children.I was only counselled by myself, and my children were counselled apart from me.Here is an example:I went to mine and stated we had a wonderful visit, walked in the park, baked cookies, arts and crafts.(Which IS what we did).Then they went in a few days later for their counselling and it was filled with, making them stay in a filthy apartment, not feeding them, screaming at them for drinking milk....I think you get my point.Then when I would go back, the counseller would state that she spoke to my girls, but was not given permission to tell me what they said.So how is that helping anybody?
-finally won in court for Christmas access, my ex called to say goodnight, my girls were screaming to go HOME.They were so scared of me.They were shaking and screaming!On the phone call(which I taped due to the need for evidence to keep my ass out of BAD PARENT JAIL)he tried to talk one of them into dialing "the three numbers for help, you know the three numbers to call remember?"

My list could go on forever...if you read the book Divorce Poison, EVERY example in that book, has a direct reference to my case.

Anyway, I spoke to this reknowned doctor about maybe taking action in court for the PAS, and if he would be willing to see my girls IF I could manage to get time to see them again.I dumped tapes all over his desk...recordings that PROVE the case, and this is what he told me..."I don't need to hear the tapes, but if what you are telling me is true, I will tell you right now to drop it.You are looking at years of court battles, with MORE parental alienation to come."
I do see his point I would be putting my children in more danger, BUT they are in danger NOW!!!!How am I supposed to just sit back and let my girls be abused, and wait YEARS for them to figure out the truth.

I am barely hanging on through this.I have spent $50,000 in lawyers fees, and have now been doing the court stuff myself.I have become ill, and have been unable to work for almost a year now.Doctors don't know what it is, but it's probably the stress taking it's toll on me.
I feel like I'm standing in a room full of people SCREAMING for help, and nobody even turns to look at me.