This is about cruelty abuse and the family courts and people associsted with it not really understanding whats happening

My ex-husband alienated my 29-year-old son. He has not talked to me in 4 years. The funny thing is that no one knows how he manipulated him, but he did do it. Does the alienator tell lies to their children, because I think that is what he is good at? I will never know what he did to my son. I only hope my son someday sees what was done to him.

I have experienced nothing but terror from my ex re: my daighter. She has alienated me for 6 years now.

She has accused me everything under the sum.

She carried affairs with other men. one in particular that I found out about.

This ended it. She blamed for fot this and used my daughter as revenge.

I love my daughter very much, but have lost all hope of reconciliation....

It's been a while since I wrote here. 2 months to be almost exact. Yesterday my teenage son told me to fuck off and pushed me aside. My teenage daughter said I was a liar, dishonest and I had lost all my values and people who are Catholic don't get divorced. My smallest son doesn't want to stay overnight with me anymore either. My elder two daughters don't want to talk to me nor (apparently) ever see me again. My eldest son is ok though, but I am sure he's doing his best to defend the attacks and alienation from his mother. I am moving on with another woman and getting married again. My ex has ramped up her wrath. the rest of the story is on my blog

My ex, a cunning professional, has aliented my 15 and 17 year old. This has been going on for years and now he picked up my sons and took them after telling them I was spending all his money and their college money to buy a home. I cannot contact them and they won't answer my texts. It is a violation of our week on/week off custodial arrangement. My last attorney says to take him to court but I have already spent over $100,000 to stop this.

A therapist told me to give it time, but there are very few therapists or people in general that understand this horrible situation. It has worsened over these last few months.

Does anyone have suggestions to help? Thanks for any responses.

“A father’s day”

Father’s day is a special day, it’s meant to honor dad.
I can’t imagine growing up without the father I had.
He taught me how to be humble, he taught me when to be proud.
He taught me to pray in silence, and he taught me how to preach loud.
If I could have my choice, and choose any kind of dad I desire.
I would choose one who preaches love, always mentioning hellfire.
I would like a Dad who knows what he believes,
One who never compromises, and is always bringing in the sheaves.
I would like him to be humble, maybe have a little pride.
Teach me how to clean the outside, through Jesus I have inside.
I’d like to always know how much my father loved me,
and when ever that I failed, he still wasn’t ashamed to hug me.
It would be nice to have a dad like that, wouldn’t you agree.
Friend you already would, if only you were me.

Can you imagine how it feels, on that special day.
For father’s all around the world, who will all kneel down to pray.
They’ll pray for each of their kids, and name them one by one.
Jocelyn, Jasmine, Jackie, and Joshua my only son.
Can you imagine what it feels like not knowing if they’re ok??
Hoping they are alright, Crying for them every time you pray.
Not able to even see them, or talk to them at all.
Staying up late nights, still hoping one of them will call.
In 563 days, that has felt like 100 years.
I have filled up countless gallons of God’s bottles with my tears.
But what I feel is tough, compared to some it’s only mild.
Forget being the Dad, can you imagine being the child!


_Joshua L. Douglass
6-13-08
18 hrs Before Father’s Day 2008