I have experienced nothing but terror from my ex re: my daighter. She has alienated me for 6 years now.

She has accused me everything under the sum.

She carried affairs with other men. one in particular that I found out about.

This ended it. She blamed for fot this and used my daughter as revenge.

I love my daughter very much, but have lost all hope of reconciliation....

It's been a while since I wrote here. 2 months to be almost exact. Yesterday my teenage son told me to fuck off and pushed me aside. My teenage daughter said I was a liar, dishonest and I had lost all my values and people who are Catholic don't get divorced. My smallest son doesn't want to stay overnight with me anymore either. My elder two daughters don't want to talk to me nor (apparently) ever see me again. My eldest son is ok though, but I am sure he's doing his best to defend the attacks and alienation from his mother. I am moving on with another woman and getting married again. My ex has ramped up her wrath. the rest of the story is on my blog

My ex, a cunning professional, has aliented my 15 and 17 year old. This has been going on for years and now he picked up my sons and took them after telling them I was spending all his money and their college money to buy a home. I cannot contact them and they won't answer my texts. It is a violation of our week on/week off custodial arrangement. My last attorney says to take him to court but I have already spent over $100,000 to stop this.

A therapist told me to give it time, but there are very few therapists or people in general that understand this horrible situation. It has worsened over these last few months.

Does anyone have suggestions to help? Thanks for any responses.

Alientation tactics must be stopped for the safety and welfare of children.

I have had two marriages that failed, the first of which I had a child from. Both men were parental alienators. My daugther's father is a mild alienator, though now that she is 15 and rebellious he has heightened his efforts.

My second ex was extreme. I left because he controlled his kids until they were of college age, and used money to keep control in college. He ensured that they not have a relationship with their mother. Her and I are in contact now.

Parental Alienators are usually described at mothers and the alienated parents seem to mostly be portrayed as men. There are good moms out there that have had their children stripped way to controlling men who believe that taking the children away is okay as punishment for leaving.

In the end, the children grow up and live with the damage for the rest of their lives.

PAS is not gender specific.